Date: 2018-01-10 05:47
I 8767 m about to get married to a man who is 76 and I am 85 we been together for a year and I mean we have issues but things work out. I don 8767 t like the word cougar because if you love that person age shouldn 8767 t matter
But it saddens me to hear how many 8775 regular 8776 woman are being told they need to be more feminine. In order for us to be feminine, the masculine energy has to be present in the man. We cannot be soft when he is not strong (not just physically)..
7. Older divorced men have little to no interest in remarriage. 8775 Grey divorce 8776 is the fastest growing segment of the divorced demographic and ~75% initiated by women.
Thank you for sharing your experience and your wisdom, Randy. I agree with all you said. It 8767 s unfortunate about your child 8767 s mother that 8767 s sad but I 8776 m sure he 8767 s so happy you are there for him. Ladies do you see???? The MYTH that men never want to communicate or commit is BOGUS. You are reading it here over and over. You rock, Randy. And don 8767 t worry no spam coming your way. 🙂 Bp
To each their own! But I learned that whoever has money has to be careful about getting taken advantage of man or woman- and there are jerks at every age. I hate generalizations that older women are better, men are better, etc. There are good and bad people and it 8767 s up to you to find them. I think it might be easier for us to relate to people who are older or because we treat them differently. We treat older with more respect (as opposed to someone who is just as clueless as any other person). Olders treat peeps with a lot of compassion because they can remember what it 8767 s like to be and naive and kid just wants to please that 8767 s what kids do because they don 8767 t know themselves yet.
Dear Jen, I am in a similar boat. Would leave NOW but after 7 years with him I got boiled like a frog and lost my house and job and savings to the charismatic psycho who has about as much charm now for me as a putrifying POS. I am trapped here. It 8767 s like living with the taliban. I am worn out and must leave but HOW? I buy lottery tickets how sad is that? I would be happy to contact you for mutual support.
So glad he is your ex. Make sure you don 8767 t get caught by another abusive man. I think good advice is also do not stay with anyone who gives even a hint of having a hot temper because this will be turned on you eventually. These abusers are often angry men who cannot control themselves.
Hey Mike! I agree that is a woman to say 8766 no thank you 8767 to, for sure. I know my 8775 ladies 8776 quite well and I don 8767 t think it describes most, but it 8767 s good information. When you say 8776 The damsel in distress is looking for somebody to save her: from herself 8776 you are right on. This is why the first step in my 6-Step coaching system is 8775 Falling in Love with Your Grownup, Sexy Self. 8776 It 8767 s all about attracting the right man by becoming the best woman you can be that starts with loving yourself and creating a great life for yourself. Thanks for your comment.
That said, there are somethings you need to think about One is to make sure dude is being sincere For reals, a lot of guys around my age get off on the rush of having a girl be into him. He is in a position of power, and may have certain legal implications he has to consider. Lastly, you know, there are college professor types that consider it a benefit of the job that they can show off the occasional co-ed
He probably thinks he 8767 s giving more than you are and is pulling back and pretty soon he will feel hurt and frustrated that you turned out to be a complete waste of time.